Top 12 Qualities a good Husband must have

After a girl’s marriage her husband becomes not only his life partner, but also her best friend. He is the first one whom she addresses for any joys or sorrows.

Every girl dreams of her prince charming, the perfect guy for her who will take her into her magical dream world full of love. She wants him to be the best for her. Of course, no single  guy is perfect or possesses all the qualities a girl dreams about, but trying a bit to incorporate a few good qualities goes a long way and make your relationship better and your life happier. And pleasing a girl is not as difficult as all you guys think. All they care for is a little attention, love and care. For all you girls out there who are in search for a husband and all you husbands trying to please their wife, I present you “Top 12 Qualities a good Husband must have” list. This list will surely help you to woo your beautiful wife or that pretty girlfriend of yours.

12. Pampers you.


We girls love being pampered like little kids. And a guy who pampers his girl every now and then can never go wrong with the relationship. Pampering makes girls happy. If your guy pampers you, it means your happiness is all he cares about. Pampering does not only include buying gifts. It can be small little gestures like writing a love note, getting a rose, surprising your wife with cupcakes, singing a song for her, dancing on her favorite song with her, cute text messages, making bed tea for her or anything else that will get a smile on your girls face. Trust me, these small little gestures tell us girls how thoughtful you guys are and make us fall in love all over again.

11. Good sense of humor

sense of humor

A guy with a good sense of humor is like a jackpot! Who would want to have boring conversations with their partner? Everyone wants a good laugh now and then. The most of time you spend is with your better half. Hence, sharing inside jokes, that little giggle or that hilarious loud laugh becomes so much fun. One point where  girls fall for guys is good sense of humor. We love guys who can make us laugh and adds a spark to the relationship. Humor gives the relationship a new dimension and keeps it fresh and healthy.

10. Does your hobbies with you.


If your husband takes out time to accompany you to do your hobbies, then you may be the luckiest girl in the world. Not only hobbies, going out with you for everyday work such as grocery shopping, or just going for a jog with you could be done too. These little things mean a lot for all the girls as it implies you want to spend most of the time with her and want be with her what so ever the case may be. Volunteering in doing things with her gives her a sense of belonging.

9. Loves kids.


Who doesn’t love kids? All we girls do. But the case is not the same with guys. All guys do not love kids. According to me, a guy playing with little kids is the sexiest thing ever. Wink, wink! At some point of time, you would surely want a family. And a guy who loves kids always makes a good father. He may not show his love to kids like you do. Girls do all the cheek pulling, talking in a squeaky voice and calling cute names to kids, guys generally do not do that. But that doesn’t mean he can’t make a good father. Look for signs how he reacts around kids playing. Does he get irritated and shout often at kids? If not, you don’t need to worry girls; he surely possesses a soft corner for kids.

8. Supportive


A good husband is a one who supports you through your good and bad. He should listen to you and guide you to the right path and support your decision. Be it your career move or any other personal or professional decision, he should support you. And mind it, if he doesn’t always support you, doesn’t mean he is not supportive. It means he does not think you are on the right path and wants to be a good counselor to you.

7. Dependable


One of the many qualities all the husbands must possess is being dependable. Your girl should be able to depend on you for any work she asks for help with. She must be sure you won’t disappoint her. The thing may be as little as grocery shopping or even a big event as planning a party altogether. If your girl can depend on you for each and everything, you are going perfectly right in your relationship.

6. Makes you a better person.

better person

Relationships are about learning from each other. If you improve as a person and become a better person as you spend time with him, he is the right guy for you. It does not mean you change all together as a person, it means improving little everyday habits like eating your meals on time, becoming punctual or any other good habits you can grab from your spouse. After all, your life is meant to improve not worsen day by day.

5. Loves your flaws.

loves flaws

No one out there is perfect. Not only in terms of beauty, but also in terms of nature. Each and every person possesses some flaws and getting a husband who loves you including your flaws and doesn’t judge is the best the girl can get. It gives girls a feeling that their husbands love her for who she is and can appreciate her what so ever may be the situation.

4. Compromises for you.


A relationship is about give and take. A good husband should sometimes compromise things to make his wife happy. For example, you could compromise on your boy’s night out if your wife is not feeling well or something else as the case may be. It doesn’t mean you have to compromise each and every time for your girl. Doing this once in a while makes her feel that she is your number one priority.

3. Faithful


It is a quality which both the persons in a relationship should possess. Be faithful to her. Do not cheat on her, ever. Being faithful to each other increases your trustworthiness altogether and makes your relationship long lasting. She should never have to worry about you cheating on her every time you go on a night out with your friends. A faithful husband does not mean your hubby should be restricted from talking to other girls. Rather it means, your hubby should never look at any other girl the way he looks at you. Ooh la la !

2. Understanding/Communication


This is a key factor for any relationship to be successful. According to me, if you can communicate to your partner and understand him/her, you surely have a strong relationship. Any misunderstanding should be sorted out that day itself. He should be able to understand your problems, your difficulties, what you are trying to explain to him and communicate freely without any barriers. He should take out some time to talk to you. This is only possible if you put your ego aside and communicate with your partner.

1. Trust


Trust tops this list because any relationship is life less if it deprives of trust. Trust is the building block of a relationship. The stronger the trust gets, the stronger gets the relationship. This is the most important quality a good husband must possess. He should be able to trust you on each and everything and at the same time be trustworthy too. He should not spy on you or be suspicious of you. If you both can trust each other blindly, I am very sure your relationship is a perfect one.

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    • hhhhhhhhhhhh you have not met me yet and many other men , you poor you just met the pigs

      but do you think there is a women who has all these qualities ( don’t answer i know the answer )

    • What a stupid response. This is a typical response from a woman that always picks the same kind of looser, then thinks that all men are the same. What is the same is your method of selecting a man, and I bet it is based on looks.

      • This is actually the way the majority of women on the planet respond. It’s bad where I’m from, and really bad in some countries like India where it’s practically illegal to be male.

        It amazes me how the most privileged and protected group on the planet can act like they do and then have the audacity to say that it’s the men who are pigs or less than human.

    • You are just not lucky, I pray that God will provide you with one. I know so many down here in Nigeria only that the women turns out to be ingrates to some extents.

    • Your name implies that you are a woman who is from India. If so, I’m not surprised that you’d be a sexist misandrist. You Indian women are the worst and are the most misandric group I’ve ever met.

      I get why Indian men flirt with Western women so much. It’s because Indian women are bigoted, toxic, and sexist. I actually feel sorry for Indian men; they deal with man-hating trash that happen to wear makeup and dresses every single day. Indian women are also the worst to marry.

      I hope men realize how much of a bigot you are and remember to stay clear of you. You’re toxic.

  • You forgot to list the guy that gets up and feeds the babies at 2:00 and 5:00AM, changes their diapers, and then goes to work a construction job all day long, and grabs the kids and takes them out as soon as he gets home, gives them a bath, and puts them to bed with a bedtime story My wife and I (Married 39 Years) had twins when my first daughter was 13 months old so we had three in diapers at the same time.

    Listing shopping with the wife is not fair, everyone knows that it takes a woman three hours to buy a pair of socks, and she ends up buying the pair she saw in the first five minutes of shopping. Its just not fair!

    • Once you do all these, you’ll be surprised how much you’ll get back. Just try it bro, it totally worked for me.